Spanking... A Curse? or A Gift?
Spanking.... What a wild ride, sometimes I view spanking as a "curse". To go through life with a entity so powerful, yet so misunderstood you can't talk about the subject even with a complete stranger, a close friend, or even the people who mean the most to you. All you want is someone to understand, take notice, or I guess try to understand, spanking, is more then a "fetish", it is you. I now have a slight understanding how it is to be gay and wanting so much for other people to understand, wanting so deeply to feel safe "coming out of the closet". Spanking, is sometimes as deep, a part of you that can't change, something your born with, .... A Gift. A Gift, well that is the positive view. Funny, I once talked with a therapist about spanking. I started with "I don't want to be "fixed", I just want to understand why it is so important to me, after numerous sessions I realized no matter how long I sat there "she will never understand". I gave up. So, back to a Gift, I don't want to change the way I feel, I am lucky to have something so special in my life. Thanks to technology, I can talk with people who understand and people who also embrace spanking as "A Gift". Let me know what you think? B
posted by OTKbrush at 9:38 AM
7 Comments:
OTK,
Well said! I completely agree.
Best wishes with your new blog.
Bonnie
Well, it is a gift--that I must ask for and someone else must agree to provide--a difficult circumstance really for a gift, don't you think? But when that gift is given to me, I am so deeply, deeply thankful. I become the soul of gratitude. Any close friend should want to have a companion who feels deeply grateful, surely!
It is also a curse--so unusual to ask to be bent over, bare bottom-punished by hand, or paddle, or some other implement. Maybe it is genetic, maybe imprinting but it is deeply a part of me. I need it as a gift, a gift that only a lover or close friend can give me.
It requires that I humble myself and present my vulnerabilty as I present my bottom. The result is greater mutual trust, intimacy, respect, and appreciation.
jm
this is a great, great point of discussion.
I also thought yeah, this is a cool thing but a curse. a gift and a monkey on my back.
a gift? (it's such a hot fetish to have) and a curse (how many times have i thrown out my spanking erotica collection due to guilt?)
So, as I just launched my new blog, it's sort of my way of 'coming out' and trying, trying really hard to embrace this fetish. and NOT fight it. and enjoy it!
Take care and have fun :)
Dave
"The Cherry Red Report"
I am 17 soon to be 18 and i have been trying to fight this fetish since 13. I was never spanked so i didnt know what caused it. I just really like it. I would love to experience it. But it is hard to talk about it with others. I always thought i was a freak. But now thanks to all of your comments I can accept it. Thanks. Do you know of any place or any body in New York, as i Live in the Bronx where you can talk about it. Or maybe someone who can spank me because i have never been spanked yet. I would realy like to be. Thanks again if anyone reads this and wants to email me i am jmc328@optonline.net
I've never been spanked from my parents and I think about a nice hairbrush spanking all the time ... will you spank me?
I've never been spanked from my parents and I think about a nice hairbrush spanking all the time ... will you spank me?
I hate it with a passion. I can't have a successful relationship without it but finding a partner who understands takes an act of God! I'm in the process of "coming out" to my current partner now. I will probably scare him off :(
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