Should you ask for a spanking?
Should you ask for a spanking? Is it worth it? I would like to toss out the question, is asking for a spanking worth it or does it take away form the whole aspect of hearing the words "Your Getting a Spanking". For my situation, asking for a spanking really takes away for the entire reason of spanking. I guess I am more of a traditionalist, spanking is something to be decided by the spanker. Once the sentence is handed down, there is no possibility of changing their mind. For me that is why the beginning of a spanking is so important, its the loss of control. If I have to ask it becomes a favor and changes the whole dynamics of what is important to me. So for me the answer is No, it is not worth it. What do you think? B
posted by OTKbrush at 8:21 AM
8 Comments:
OTK Brush,
I think there are lots of kinds of spankings and just as many reasons for them. In many situations, asking for a spanking can add an welcome element of fun.
Discipline has its place, but not to the exclusion of all else.
Bonnie
I think there is a certain dynamic in asking for a spanking. Not every time but occasionally having to try to get up the courage, especially if you know the answer is going to absolutely be yes. My "mama" told me that if even I knew I needed a good dose of her hair brush, then she really needed to apply it long and thoroughly and make it memorable. Once I told her that maybe I needed a spanking to help me behave and remember to do my chores, she took over and I was rapidly regressing to a very scared and unhappy eight year old. Especially when she told me I was going to receive a spanking every week for the next year to make sure the lessons were taking hold and then she would decide if she could reduce or forgo this regimen, She told me she was proud of me for being honest but that wasn't going to save my bottom and she was sure I'd soon regret asking. She was right! She also told me that she was on the verge of spanking me anyway and that my request had just helped her make up her mind and told her that it would need to be well administered with her wood backed hairbrush. When she brought up the brush, I began pleading but she just said the brush would ensure a solid lesson and save her hand. By the time she entered my room with the brush I was feeling like a little boy and sobbing pre-spanking tears and as she pulled down my pants to make my bottom bare, she told me she was positive this was going to be very good for me. She was right of course but I didn't feel that way while I kicked and cried as her hairbrush turned my bare bottom into an inferno, nor later as I stood in the corner waiting to be called back for two more trips otk to reheat my seat and pay for each transgression that had brought me to this sorry state.
Not from my parents - but from anyone else. I love being spanked. I can't be spanked enough. Spankings are not discipline or punishment for me. They are great stress relievers.
My sense is that spanking is something that is given when its time has come. A fifteen yer old cusses his grandmother, breaking a stick on her head, for emhasis. The father comes home and learns about it. It is useless for the young man to ask for a spanking. He drops his pants and gets it! However, there are circumstances when a seventee ear olg girl is caught shoplifting and her career at school hangs on balance. In such case, if she can, she could beg for a spanking in lieu of going to the police. So, the survival circumstances determine when spanking may be asked for.
Suppose you've done something that really deserves a spanking by the established rules, yet it hasn't come to light, and is very unlikely to.
You know you deserve a spanking, and as time goes by, you may increasingly feel that you want to pay for your misdeeds.
You don't even have to ask for the spanking, because you were promised a spanking any time you committed the misdeed. You need only tell on yourself, Yes, I stole some of your cigarettes.
The spanking will follow, as it would if you were caught rather than confessed. The spanker is in control, as it was she/he who set the rules.
What did I tell you would happen if you steal?
I'd get a, a spanking.
You're telling me doesn't change the fact that you stole from me, and you're going to get a spanking. After dinner, I want you to go to your room, get ready, and wait for me.
The hours between your confession, being sentenced to the spanking and being given your spanking are as endless and short as every other time you've earned the hairbrush.
The immediate ritual of the spanking won't change, and the spanker remains in control. Your bottom will still be bared, you'll be taken over the knee, and the hairbrush soundly applied, your kicking and pleading rightly ignored until the spanker alone feels the lesson is learned.
yes I did from 12 to 20 years old it was always on the bare butt.
Since discipline is a remedy for transgression, it is that act of transgressing what asks for a spanking! No other "asking" is required! You want a spanking, you keep breaking the rules, shoplifting, being sassy and disrespectful. You slap police officers and teachers. You break a stick on your grandmother's head. You will get spanked when father comes home. You should! If you do not, it means a societal and parental failure! Some people indeed, because of this failure, sit in jail, as I write, thinking about the spankings they needed ... but didn't get!
I guess it depends. It took me years to get the courage to ask my mother to spank
me. It is so hard for a guy to ask his mother to spank him. Finally, at 15 I asked her. Sort of. I went out to the back porch and she was brushing her hair with this large wooden hairbrush. My eyes kept going back and forth between the brush and her lap. She stopped brushing her hair, looked at me, and asked me if I wanted her to
spank me. I started to blubber and talk nonsense. "Sweety, I said yes. I will spank
you." OMG. She said yes and I could not really remember asking her.
Long story short, the embarrassment was even better than I thought it would be.
After being ordered to be in my birthday suit I stood there thinking I could not
even remember the last time I was naked in front of her. Then the spanking. The
old saying of be careful of what you wish for is true. I had NO clue that a bare
bottom spanking could hurt so, so much!
Kevin
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